Uninhibited sex is what most people dream of, more than we can imagine. Nowadays, in our modern world, this possibility is no longer something to fear, to hide, to be ashamed of. Group sex, the exchange of partners, is no longer something unusual and clandestine, and there are even clubs specially designed for this category of people called swingers.

What’s really going on in these clubs?

Here you will find both single people and married couples, usually everyone knows what they want, but sometimes the more reticent ones show up. Some come to escape the domestic monotony and formality of daily life, instead enjoying new experiences, as not everyone is sexually inclined, others want a relaxed atmosphere and a bit of excitement. The common rule is that everyone frequents a reserved place with healthy people, free of social disguise. Last but not least, the main point is that here you don’t pay for sex. Everyone does it out of genuine desire, pleasure for pleasure’s sake. The erotic and real dynamism is felt right from the entrance, everyone communicates out of pleasure and smiles naturally. It seems hard to believe, but even these clubs have a list of rules, with the help of which you understand better what happens in a swingers club:

Hygiene

This is the most important thing, I think, when the opportunity comes to fuck someone you’ve known for 2 hours. When everyone takes care of himself it is proper and easy ! A good shower and perfuming key areas is essential. In general, swingers clubs have a good filtering of customers, and not in vain, here people are more attentive and clean than you can imagine!

“Tough breakup”

After an incognito sex match, everyone usually wants the relationship afterwards to be the same unknown. No dialogues and conversations, besides who likes to be watched while being naked and shivering after a dose of pleasure? Besides sex, nothing should become too intimate and the breakup should be easy to deal with.

Who spends time on his phone-pays!

Well, it’s ironic, but in reality in a swingers club you don’t see people with their phone in their hand. Nobody is taking pictures, no one is on the internet, no one is doing live sessions, and it’s not a surprise that this fact is not conceivable, because it’s not conceivable to disclose someone’s identity even if you are also in the picture/video.

Safety and prestige

A basic law is the accepted refusal. Swingers clubs are full of free-spirited, daring and crazy people, but that doesn’t mean disrespect, and NO mean NO. Any sex session, gang bang, orgy, etc. only becomes reality with the round consent of all participants, and if you get a refusal, it’s better to turn around and leave.

Your own stock-Sexual tastes are extremely different or even strange for each individual

And if you are fond of certain sex toys and lubricants, it would be good to have them with you in the club for any situation. In general, almost all clubs can provide you with condoms, but the key word is ” almost”, and that means it’s better to have some in your pocket. 

Swinger dating is popular not only among men

Nowadays the ratio of women to men who frequent swingers’ clubs is half, which shows a symmetrical attachment to this lifestyle. It is true that most often men are the ones with initiative, and they drag their wives or girlfriends to such places, but once they see how things are, they become very relaxed, and even take care of a later booking. The desire for group sex or partner exchange is at odds with love, say conservative people, but for the more ambitious in life, these clubs are a great opportunity to open up their relationships, and the experience really does make them happier, freer and more energetic. Many couples choose swinging to get over critical periods or monotony.

Often, some people realize that after the first visit to such a club, life becomes easier because they understand very well that inhibitions and restraints do not lead to anything good, and it’s not just about sex. On the contrary, when you know what you need and go exactly on the way to get it, you become more open, happier and stronger! Swingers clubs are the places for boundless fantasies, where you get to discover through the eyes of others a bigger world than you could ever imagine. It’s true, at first they are all shy, afraid that they are not good, not beautiful, or that something is wrong with them, but then they come back with a fabulous self-confidence, positive, without complexes, most of them trying to change their physical shape to be more attractive. The feedback people get here helps them even in life outside the club, because when people feel wanted, attractive, they become winners on different life levels.

There is still an awkward feeling when it comes to sex with multiple people or strangers, but in most countries in the world this is no longer a taboo subject, we live in a world where everyone does what they want and no one fears being judged.

With so many strange and awful things happening in the world, what happens in a swingers club doesn’t hurt anyone, and I would even say that the experience in such a club has many advantages: new people, unlimited pleasure, fun and self-confidence, because how should you feel when at some point you accept to be followed in the bedroom by 3 sexy and slutty ladies?